Pretty much what it says on the tin, but for more context. My friends and I use Discord to play D&D and other TTRPGs. We also use it to send memes and just have conversations. We mostly do the chat, text, images, gifs, etc. But we also use the voice and video chat pretty regularly too. Screen share sometimes as well. So I’d like to try to find something that has all those features if possible.

The new ID or facial recognition requirement they are implementing is a deal breaker for a few of us, and so if I can set up some kind of alternative to make it a non-issue, I’d like to.

I’m running Ubunutu 22.04 LETS, AMD 3700X, 64GBRAM, 10x 6TB HDD, and and 2 4TB NVmE. Have a 2gb up/down internet connection. So I don’t think we should have any issues making it work smoothly for 7 people.

  • TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    40·
    7 days ago

    I‘ve been looking into this a bit and whilst i haven’t really tried any of the alternatives, i did collect some notes:

    possible contenders

    • zulip
      • apache-2.0 self hosted more work focussed
    • stoatchat (formerly revolt)
      • AGPL-3 self hosted
    • teamspeak
      • proprietary … self hosted older ts3 with ts6 announced
    • mumble
      • license seems foss - self hosted
    • spacebar
      • AGPL-3 self hosted
    • return to irc or xmpp

    probably no

    DO NOT

    • mattermost
      • play stupid games, win stupid prices
    • guilded
      • owned by roblox
    • slack
    • discord
    • ventrilo
      • proprietary - not selfhosted - no linux

    please let me know what y’all think

  • Actionschnils@feddit.orgEnglish
    10·
    6 days ago

    We switched to element (matrix-protocol) a while ago. Until now it worked fine for us - without any real problems. It already got a native voice/video-call implementation. But i heard that selfhosting isnt that smooth

    https://element.io/de

    • mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      4·
      6 days ago

      Yeah, self-hosting it can be a bear, especially since you need to deal with the whole “bots trying to kill it will regularly post CSAM in random channels, and if any of your users are in that channel it will federate to your own server and now you have CSAM saved on your server’s cache” stuff. It’s the same problem that Lemmy was dealing with during Reddit’s APIcolypse. You can always choose not to federate, but that largely defeats the point of the protocol existing in the first place.

      You also need to set up TURN servers to get functional voice/video calls. WebRTC (like voice/video calling) tends to throw a fit without some sort of TURN functionality. That’s something the average Joe won’t know how to do, and is typically going to require a paid tier from some external host like Cloudflare.

      Edit: I looked it up. Cloudflare offers TURN servers, with the first 1000GB for free each month, but then it charges for use after that. But that does mean a server that gets used for video calls more than a few hours per month could end up incurring costs. Because that TURN server would be handling all of the video streaming data, so it will quickly eat that 1000GB limit. It also means true self-hosting is prohibitively difficult, as you’d be tying yourself to an external provider unless you go out of your way to host your own TURN server.

    • petersr@lemmy.worldEnglish
      2·
      6 days ago

      I feel like Matrix has gotten a lot of hate the last year or so. Don’t really know why. Perhaps people see it as being misguided.

  • lazynooblet@lazysoci.alEnglish
    9·
    6 days ago

    Something that wasn’t posted here yet but I just got told about: https://fluxer.app/

    A chat platform that answers to you, not investors. It’s ad-free, open source, community-funded, and never sells your data or nags you with upgrade pop-ups.

    Over time, we’d love to explore optional monetisation tools that help creators and communities earn, with a small, transparent fee that keeps the app sustainable.

  • ℍ𝕖𝕝𝕚0𝕤@social.ggbox.frEnglish
    131·
    7 days ago

    My guess is that it would be difficult to find a piece of software that does all the stuff discord does. But I also think it’s a non-issue. You could split these needs onto multiple solutions. My group uses mumble for gaming voicechat, Signal for group conversations, and a simple rtmp server for streaming. We don’t need nor use discord and never did.

    I like the idea of a single piece of software that does one job well instead of a giant powerhouse that does everything.

    • loiakdsf@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish
      1·
      6 days ago

      i also have a mumble server but every once in a while we need streaming. what is your rtmp setup? i am thinking of mediamtx, but am annoyed by having to post the link to the stream every time and everyone needs to resize windows manually to fit all on ome screen.

      • ℍ𝕖𝕝𝕚0𝕤@social.ggbox.frEnglish
        1·
        6 days ago

        Nothing fancy, I just run this docker image which allows streaming to via OBS, and we can watch the streams with VLC. I’m sure there are better ways to do it but that works well enough for us. Do note that a few seconds of latency is to be expected with RTMP.

  • Wawe@lemmy.worldEnglish
    9·
    7 days ago

    I replaced Discord(and Whatsapp) with Matrix/Element as voice chat (and general chat) with my wife. I remember running it with Docker was bit annoying to set up (I was selfhosting beginner when first doing it now it could be easier), but with Yunohost it is one click install (if you are willing with swap operating server).

    Nextcloud Talk could work for your needs, but I have not personally used it so hard to recommend it.

  • quantumcheap@lemmy.worldEnglish
    1·
    5 days ago

    Self hosting a Matrix server was daunting when I first looked into it, so concerns over it being difficult to deploy are pretty founded. But that changed when I discovered this repo. This makes quick work of getting one spun up, but the true gem of this is their documentation. They’ve probably got the best documentation I’ve ever read that explains the “why’s” and not just the “how’s”.

    https://github.com/spantaleev/matrix-docker-ansible-deploy

  • sol6_vi@lemmy.makearmy.ioEnglish
    2·
    6 days ago

    I’m hosting a matrix server it was rough but not impossible. Using conduit as the backend. Now that the setup is finally done it was so worth it. I would do it again if needed. Coturn was easy to set up along side it.

  • InFerNo@lemmy.mlEnglish
    43·
    7 days ago

    Yes, Mattermost. It’s very similar to Slack and Discord. I have hosted it for years for our organization.

    There’s a web interface, and has an app available. Can have all sorts of integrations and bridges to other services.