• Skunk [any]@lemmy.zip
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      19 days ago

      why do I need to desperately read this? what am i supposed to get out of that mess? That people will treat me differently when I fail some rule I was supposed to know about? Believe me I know, and guess what I have made the decision a long time ago and it’s been treating me so well ever since that I’d rather live with those consequences and not with the constant fear of tripping some unkown wire.

      Like apparently I have to acknowledge that what the girl did was outside of the norm (which I have not even contested by the way) before we can talk about the guy passive-aggressively “teaching her a lesson” by negging her or whatever that is supposed to be. No I won’t. What the guy is advocating for is inexcusable even if she had belched like a walrus