How does that relate? The waitress is bound to a social constract that restricts their behaviour, much like one should not spew some platitudes that sound like you’re tripping right now in response to a customary greeting that really isn’t about how they’re doing unless asked of a close friend or family in a private setting.
It relates because neither is actually sincere, and thinking either is doing anything other than performing for some other purpose is a failure to read cues.
The overly friendly and polite shtick is how people landed on “m’lady”, but it got memed so hard everyone realises it was cringe.
How does that relate? The waitress is bound to a social constract that restricts their behaviour, much like one should not spew some platitudes that sound like you’re tripping right now in response to a customary greeting that really isn’t about how they’re doing unless asked of a close friend or family in a private setting.
It relates because neither is actually sincere, and thinking either is doing anything other than performing for some other purpose is a failure to read cues.
The overly friendly and polite shtick is how people landed on “m’lady”, but it got memed so hard everyone realises it was cringe.