• 21Cabbage@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 years ago

    I’m still really broken about the miscarriage a few years back and most of the response I’ve gotten from others has been in the form of violence.

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      2 years ago

      I don’t have any tattoos, but if I ever got one it would be 4 small circles. Three would be filled in and one would be just an outline. It’s not much, but as a father of four pregnancies but three kids it would be a small little reminder just for me. My logic has always been if I’m going to be marked on the outside, it should reflect how I’m marked on the inside.

      Four years later it still stings. I wish you peace; I wish I could say talking about it with other people has helped, but I can’t.