If by grown stuff you mean work, taxes, chores… You can do whatever you want afterwards, you earned it.
That’s what grown up stuff is, responsibilities.
I do this that and the other. All the things
Time enjoyed is not time wasted.
I am mid 40s and still do all that fun stuff. One thing worth learning as you get older, who gives a shit what others do or what their opinion of you is. If they want to be a boring stick in the mud, crabbing at everything, probably also a miserable alcoholic, let them. Play your games, buy dumb shit, enjoy what you want.
Lots of wasted time on things people don’t enjoy and I’m talking things like video games. Make sure you actually enjoy them and aren’t just doing it because your friends are/that’s what you’ve always done.
NOOOO WORK AND OBLIGATIONS IS WHAT DEFINES THE MEANING OF LIFE!
None of that is “childish”.
You go to work like an adult, come home and:
Play an M rated video game Watch an adult oriented animated show/film, Watch YouTube video that reached about some complex topic that you have an interest in (science, history, etc) or a video of someone playing those aforementioned M rated games.
Live your life, have fun with it.
I feel this in my soul. I’m an adult in that I pay rent, feed my kid, etc. but I’m also overly traumatized by the world around me so I retreated into the same things that made me happy as a kid. Also, my brain is wholly convinced I’m 12 not 36.
Viewing things you enjoy as something you’re not allowed to do because you are an adult is easily the most childish thing you can do. Don’t live your life as though you are an animal trained to perform for others.
Still happening to me at 52 years old. Fuck growing up.
I live how, when my wife has to leave the city for a day or more, my kid’s reaction is, invariably, “yeah! There won’t be any adults in the house.” 🤣
If being an adult is having children and being married or even having a girlfriend (or whatever you like); then I’m good with just having a house, cars, hobbies, being able to travel, and endless entertainment.
There are no useless facts. Only growing knowledge. You are a full time student for the rest of your life.
The only thing that’s childish is thinking your age means you have to stop doing the things you enjoy. I’m in my late 30’s and you’re basically describing my weekends. Well, the ones I actually have free that is. Sadly, responsibilities eat into that more and more the older you get. All the more reason to actually enjoy your free time when you have it
I just do all that after I do the grown up stuff I have to do
You sound like some kind of modern human being that exists on earth
I don’t think these are opposed concepts.
Uufff based
goddamn right.
good luck with your kid though. guess climate change is their problem now.
You can still do all the fun stuff after work. Weekends exist too you know.
They already said they play video games, watch cartoons, youtube, & learn useless facts in their free time.
The thing is, you can do all of that. There’s enough time for boring adult stuff and fun.
Im at the point in my life where my children consume all of that. I get time after everyone in my house is asleep. Thankfully I function on 6.5 hours of sleep, so i can get some time
If you can function adequately on 5, there is another 1.5 hours of gaming time available.
Just kidding. Get the sleep you need so your brain will function well for longer and you can get those missed hours of fun back when your kids don’t require all your attention.
I don’t know how old your kids are, but I have my 8 year old playing Final Fantasy with me, and I’m playing Minecraft Dungeons with him
Oh im totally here for all that. Id love to play more video games with my kids. Thats mostly their mom’s choice that they enroll in musical theatre/tennis/tap dance/etc. and theres minimal unstructured time
They regularly ask if they can just stay home and play Lets Go Eevee or Mario Kart with me.
Yeah my son gets one extracurricular at a time. It’s too much for kids to fill their schedules like that. They need unstructured time and boredom
Mines for multiple children, so when ones at event, the other parent is on full kid duty. I agree and I support bored kids
You can also combine kids and fun. You just need to be a bit creative.
I thought weekends were the fum stuff after work
Who said you can’t spend a few hours gaming during weekdays. Traditionally, people have spent those hours watching low quality trash on TV. Shooting space bugs with rockets and flame throwers is a lot more fun IMO.
It’s also way better for your brain. Just don’t forget to take care of the body too.
