• Manalith@midwest.social
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    19 days ago

    I mean bringing the friend is absolutely fine, especially if she doesn’t know you, honestly I’m surprised the friend even made her presence known, should’ve stayed hidden. If you’re a creep, you’re more likely to reveal that if you don’t know you’re being watched.

    As far as being from a different place, that does seem like a dick thing to leave out if you’re using Tinder whilst traveling, but I guess I don’t know etiquette there. Though maybe she just got a bad vibe and used that as an excuse to end it.

    • eurodyne@piefed.world
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      19 days ago

      I’ve gone on hook up dates where I brought a friend (for safety- the friend left after initial greetings), and I’ve gone on hook up dates where the other guy brought a friend for the same reason. No shame. It was totally cool, and we even mentioned it beforehand. this was not uncommon in the late 90s - early 00s.

      In fact, I haven’t heard of someone doing it in a while, so I was a little surprised to see someone else asking about it.