• Eq0@literature.cafe
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    10 months ago

    This gives me flashbacks to the one time in my life I really wanted to answer “okay boomer”

    My father in law was supporting the claim the climate change might exist, but it’s nothing we have to concern ourselves about because it’s going to take decades to do anything.

    And I was like: you have grandkids, they will be there in decades! And: you just experienced the first drought of your country, how is that not climate change??

    After half an hour going in rounds I gave up and bit my tongue to not torpedo our relationship. Two years later he admitted that maybe there was something about climate change nowadays…

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      10 months ago

      Decades ago my stepmother did this in front of her 8 year old daughter… I was like, ok you’ll be dead, and you don’t need to care about me as your stepson, but what about her?

      Ughh… Now her and my dad are MAGA…

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      10 months ago

      bit my tongue to not torpedo our relationship

      I’m so glad my wife is basically no contact with her parents, because I never have to play nice with them.

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      10 months ago

      Life is too short to bother maintaining relationships with people like that. They can rot away in lonely isolation, like they deserve.

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        10 months ago

        You know one snippet of my father in law. Is it really sufficient for you to judge the whole man? I sure hope never to be judged so harshly!

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          10 months ago

          He literally told you he didn’t give a shit about your kids or theirs. That’s indeed sufficient enough for most reasonable people.

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    10 months ago

    The secret ingredient is lead poisoning. The Baby Boomer generation spent over half their lives sniffing leaded gasoline fumes.

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    10 months ago

    I feel like it’s more bleeding into, ok x-er now.

    Not to say that all of Gen X’s like this, but I’m definitely seeing some of the older ranks falling into this sort of behavior

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    7 months ago

    Only I’m not a boomer dumbass, and I am right.

    Check your facts, and stop trying to dismiss other people’s statements out of hand just because you think they’re a certain age.

    Logical fallacy much?

    Note: I’m not responding to OP directly, but instead to everyone who’s ever called me a fucking boomer!

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      10 months ago

      slurs used on people for things you cant control ❌️

      slurs used on people for things 100% in their control ✅️

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    10 months ago

    “I haven’t learned how to communicate with people that have different ideas than me so I just come up with new slurs to call them!”

    -post gets 10 to 1 upvotes somehow.

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      10 months ago

      No I don’t have the time for people who don’t have time for me. Every boomer in my life decided I was lazy, weak, dumb, or worthless before trying to actually take the time to see if that was true. Why should I have spent the time trying to convince them otherwise if they already didn’t care? It’s not like me showing them how wrong they were benefits me whatsoever. Wasted energy that could be better spent improving my life and the lives of people who do care.

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    10 months ago

    I was told the other day by someone younger than me that saying “okay boomer” is cringe now. The new hot hip fan-didly-tastic slang is “unc status” or “aunt status”, apparently. Means the same thing, but in sleek Gen-Z packaging.

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    10 months ago

    Just wait - Millennials and Gen-Z - until there’s a war and an active draft in the US again.

    Venezuela anyone? (Dear God, I hope not but the current asshat in the Oval Orfice seems bent on taking a page from the Monroe Doctrine and adding teeth. Gotta justify Kegsbreath’s trillion dollar DOD budget plans after all…)

    Shit’s gonna get VERY real and you may gain a bit of insight as to why 'boomers just gave up and “went condo” as they used to say.

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      10 months ago

      There will never be another draft. Our military is to big, and we aren’t going to try to occupy anything. Drones knock down our deployment numbers drastically. Unless there was actually a war with someone like China or on our own soil, there is no need. We currently have about 2 million people already volunteered. Our largest force during the Afghanistan/Iraq bologna was around 100k. So we could send 10x that and not get into the reserves. Our military is way to damn big

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        10 months ago

        The military also doesn’t want to go back to a draft army. Discipline and morale suck with a draft army and there is severe political blowback to casualties from drafted personnel.

        A lot of reforms post Vietnam were made to make sure that the US military didn’t need to draft.

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          10 months ago

          A lot of reforms post Vietnam were made to make sure that the US military didn’t need to draft.

          Selective Service would like a word with you.

          An all-volunteer military isn’t that ironclad an outcome. I can certainly see service being used to leverage young men and of course “inform” them with nationalistic propaganda.

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    10 months ago

    Ok. Don’t learn from others mistakes and wreck your life on your own.

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    10 months ago

    They have it backwards. Young people think old people had it easy. This is their justification for not trying. Truth is every generation has it’s challenges. Rather than turn to social media for validation, look for information. There’s no one-size-fits-all solution for everyone but if you’re facing a challenge, someone before you faced the same. Don’t listen to those who tell you not to try. Listen to folks who succeeded, what worked, what didn’t.

    PS The only derogatory I can say about the young generation as a whole is, where the fuck is your rock and roll? You’re listening to your grandparent’s music. Lame.

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      10 months ago

      Unlike their boomer ancestors, the current generations talk with their partners about all sorts of things, not just about sex and dinner. Almost as if they are not only sexual partners but also close friends that understand each other.

      TL;DR: Ok, boomer.