• FRYD@sh.itjust.works
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    11 days ago

    Jeez yeah that’s tough. My bf and I have already agreed I’m the wordy, talkative one. Even if he is kinda repetitive, I can see in his eyes what he appreciates and what he’s less enthusiastic about and I appreciate his participation and validation nonetheless.

    • village604@adultswim.fan
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      11 days ago

      That’s the way ours is. But her anxiety tells her that I’m not talking much because I’m upset with her.

      I’m not happy with her past relationships for giving her that anxiety (she’s working on it, so I’m not unhappy with her).

      • Mac@mander.xyz
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        11 days ago

        I remember when i had to manage someone else’s emotions on top of my own. Good times