The shit kids have to go through to attempt to be social nowadays is nuts though. Social media, cyber bullying. Everything being recorded. Helicopter parenting. Plus nobody else to play with.
Best option, mandatory organized sports or some other disconnected activities.
I fear that everything being recorded affects us adults too, since part of our fear of meeting someone new might make us “cringe-worthy” if it gets posted to social media, something that previous generations of kids and teens didn’t get to experience. I was raised in the cusp of that shifting period and it affected my social life during high school and still affects me today.
I think mandates for kid actvities would be great, but the parents would have to guarantee that it’s free and ensure that their work won’t call them up during that time. This could easily be done by allowing a 4 day work week for parents exclusively and a day that they spend all for their kids, whether or not it’s a little home schooling or going to an activity. But in the current landscape of slavery-with-extra-steps and how the ruling class views us working class, when will that ever happen??
There’s the other thing about parents, they don’t have enough time to spend on their kids. I probably shouldn’t have been so quick to judge the parents and it’s not the onus on them. Parents nowadays are burnt out from work while they’re in the workplace and also have to face the burden of always being available for work, i.e. work calling them for an extra shift or remote work during the weekends. It’s getting harder and harder for parents to tend to their kids, which makes the iPad the ideal babysitter since it’s mostly a pay once item and can keep the kids busy while they’re slaving away working. This makes both the kids and parents have a miserable experience as they grow, and dare I say the younger generation might realise this as they grow older and become radicalized over workplace reforms and such.
It’s also beccoming increasingly expensive to raise kids nowadays. It’s especially hard keeping one person up on their feet nowadays, imagine having to pay for daipers at one point and paying for toys and accessories the other for 18 years straight. I mean fark, I’m not thinking of having kids until shit gets stable enough and I’m not even thinking of paying a Wi-Fi plan when I get my own place. Capitalism is a great system with no flaws.
Makes me very happy a family of screen restricted kids moved in near us the end of last year. Their kids and mine have fast become friends.
They ride around on thier bikdes in the neighborhood, know everyone, and generally have fun being kids. There are so few kids out these days, the elder folks are actually all smiles to see them, its fantastic.
The shit kids have to go through to attempt to be social nowadays is nuts though. Social media, cyber bullying. Everything being recorded. Helicopter parenting. Plus nobody else to play with.
Best option, mandatory organized sports or some other disconnected activities.
I fear that everything being recorded affects us adults too, since part of our fear of meeting someone new might make us “cringe-worthy” if it gets posted to social media, something that previous generations of kids and teens didn’t get to experience. I was raised in the cusp of that shifting period and it affected my social life during high school and still affects me today.
I think mandates for kid actvities would be great, but the parents would have to guarantee that it’s free and ensure that their work won’t call them up during that time. This could easily be done by allowing a 4 day work week for parents exclusively and a day that they spend all for their kids, whether or not it’s a little home schooling or going to an activity. But in the current landscape of slavery-with-extra-steps and how the ruling class views us working class, when will that ever happen??
There’s the other thing about parents, they don’t have enough time to spend on their kids. I probably shouldn’t have been so quick to judge the parents and it’s not the onus on them. Parents nowadays are burnt out from work while they’re in the workplace and also have to face the burden of always being available for work, i.e. work calling them for an extra shift or remote work during the weekends. It’s getting harder and harder for parents to tend to their kids, which makes the iPad the ideal babysitter since it’s mostly a pay once item and can keep the kids busy while they’re slaving away working. This makes both the kids and parents have a miserable experience as they grow, and dare I say the younger generation might realise this as they grow older and become radicalized over workplace reforms and such.
It’s also beccoming increasingly expensive to raise kids nowadays. It’s especially hard keeping one person up on their feet nowadays, imagine having to pay for daipers at one point and paying for toys and accessories the other for 18 years straight. I mean fark, I’m not thinking of having kids until shit gets stable enough and I’m not even thinking of paying a Wi-Fi plan when I get my own place. Capitalism is a great system with no flaws.
Makes me very happy a family of screen restricted kids moved in near us the end of last year. Their kids and mine have fast become friends.
They ride around on thier bikdes in the neighborhood, know everyone, and generally have fun being kids. There are so few kids out these days, the elder folks are actually all smiles to see them, its fantastic.