• Thebeardedsinglemalt@lemmy.world
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    2 hours ago

    Getting a date is a lot harder for a guy.

    As a non-fit-bro-adonis I have to put shittons of effort into my profile to make it stand out. It’s pretty grating when 70% of the women I’m scrolling through have the same generic-ass answers while also saying “I’m not like other women”

    • Thinks liking the Office is a personality trait

    • “Go on Adventures”

    • “Fluent in sarcasm”

    • States what their love language is

    • What I order for the table: “Chips and queso!” Or “Margs and queso!”

    • Simple pleasures: “clean sheets and coffee”

    • Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works
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      4 hours ago

      I have a rule that there has to be something I find interesting or want to know more about in someone’s profile before I will message them.

      This immediately rules out about half the profiles I see.