If you’re lucky, you’ll only get me talking about glacial surficial geology

  • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 days ago

    If you are acknowledging that you misread it… ok…

    …maybe don’t jump right to being so incredibly, conspiratorially critical of people, assuming things about them and fabricating insinuations of things they’ve done.

    It takes honesty to admit a mistake, that’s admirable.

    Maybe slow down a bit, make sure you got the details correct, next time you feel an urge to be very critical of someone?

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      2 days ago

      I also admire your honesty in admitting that your assumption of that user’s gender was based on conjecture (albeit plausible)

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        Everybody makes conjectures and assumptions based on limited context in nearly every thing they ever experience.

        I’m Autistic, so I’m highly aware of the assumptions I am making, and why I am making them.

        It just takes me longer to fully think through them, which is often too slow for ‘normal’ conversation tempo, but when I have time to think and fully explain myself… I’m very analytical and detail oriented.

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          2 days ago

          Yes, your explanation was really good! Mind you, I think there’s like 99% of a chance you’re right. I just don’t think something that’s not directly confirmed should be treated as granted