I know right! I think her silver streaks are so cool.

Wow, you’re the complete opposite of my partner. She’s 23 and has about 20% gray hair. Apparently runs in the family because her uncle was fully gray by his college graduation.

It’s not bigoted to recognize the type of language and stereotypes that are used against marginalized people. If you’re a woman, you’ve almost certainly been called “too emotional” or “on her period” before as a means to dismiss you by people like this who think that emotions and rationality are incompatible with each other.