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        4 days ago

        tbh i don’t get why 4 people downvoted your comment here, my above comment was inconsiderate and victim-blamey

        thanks for pointing that out

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        5 days ago

        there has to be a better solution other than expecting others not to access public information

        • (auto-)delete posts after a specified amount of time
          • drawback: non-casual creeps can circumvent this by archiving posts
        • separate online identities with multiple accounts for different purposes
          • drawback: online identities can be traced from each other if you’re not careful
        • or what i already suggested: only post stuff online that you’re comfortable with everyone seeing
          • drawback: you have to hold back on what you post online

        i personally use a mix of 2 and 3