There has been a lot of swirl around various pieces of age verification legislation and how different platforms and operating system developers are responding. I believe strongly in privacy and that the responsibility for the online activities of children is that of the parents. That said, as a parent, I think we need better tools available, especially for those who are less technically inclined. Here are my ideas:

  • A standard needs to be established that is open source and cross platform.
  • It should run at the OS level.
  • It should be controlled by someone with administrator access to the device / OS (a parent in the case of devices used by children).
  • It should be completely optional for that administrator whether they want to turn it on or not.
  • The only input should be birth year of the child whose account is being set up. No other personally identifiable info should be included.
  • All relevant sites/apps/platforms such as social media and NSFW sites should be required to honor the age indicator.

It needs to be assumed that at some point, any kid who really wants to learn will find a way to circumvent any controls but parents do need better tools.

  • queermunist she/her@lemmy.ml
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    12 hours ago

    Holding parents accountable for what they allow their children to be exposed to would, in fact, reduce the number of children being exposed to harmful things. The question is, do we focus on the punishment side or the prevention side? On the punishment side we find the parents that let their children watch idk ISIS gore videos and imprison them. On the prevention side we force parents to install parental control software, like mandating locks on gun safes if there are children in the home.

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      6 hours ago

      not imprison them, but maybe taking away or limiting child support. but that will 100% not work with the rich.

      forcing the parents to install parental control software… that would be like, here are these approved options, and you like it or not you must use them despite their privacy policies.
      instead commercial operating systems (windows, googlified android) could be required to have parental controls built in, and free software systems could apply for funding to implement it, or some other kind of collaboration.

      but this is not capitalistic so it wont happen.

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        3 hours ago

        You seem opposed to the idea of parents doing actual parenting.
        But for that matter, apparently so do many parents. They’d rather outsource the issue to the government, the operating system, the operator of whatever platform the kids happen to be using, complete strangers, literally anyone but themselves.
        Anything to avoid talking to their offspring about porn, violence, drugs or whatever else.

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          1 hour ago

          how will the parent do the parenting when the kid can do whatever on the phone given to them when the parent is not around?

          parental control software is (supposed to be) what it says it on the tin: software that lets the parent to set up limitations on the device.

          built in parental controls are supposed to be options, that the owner can opt into and out of it.