I keep on ending up like this unironically when the relationship starts off closer to 50/50 slowly 60/40 70/30 then they lose their job then its 100/0 forever even when they gain their job back.
Its hard, the mask slips so much further along and I ignore the signs so hard (this is why they say love is blind) but im working on it with my therapy so I have hope.
I wish I could just be a “dont take my generosity for weakness” types but Im not 🫠
Idk what you call it but they get SOO pissed when you ask them to do anything, I asked them to help out more when I was paying for everything that theyre “a slave” bitch all I asked was for you to cook as I was busy after work
This is not financial advice, but I think if you are stressing your bond allocation too much; you may be missing out on compounding growth. A targeted date fund is perfectly acceptable, so much so that it is a standard in most investment portfolios and even the default, daddy.
What is findom? Financial domination? Like being a sugar daddy?
Yes, financial domination. I think it’s more akin to being someone’s ATM.
I keep on ending up like this unironically when the relationship starts off closer to 50/50 slowly 60/40 70/30 then they lose their job then its 100/0 forever even when they gain their job back.
I hope you put good people in your life someday soon. Its so demoralizing to run into the exact same person with a new face over and over.
Its hard, the mask slips so much further along and I ignore the signs so hard (this is why they say love is blind) but im working on it with my therapy so I have hope.
I wish I could just be a “dont take my generosity for weakness” types but Im not 🫠
Yeah I think you just keep dating freeloaders, unless they’re like being dominant about being broke.
Idk what you call it but they get SOO pissed when you ask them to do anything, I asked them to help out more when I was paying for everything that theyre “a slave” bitch all I asked was for you to cook as I was busy after work
This is not financial advice, but I think if you are stressing your bond allocation too much; you may be missing out on compounding growth. A targeted date fund is perfectly acceptable, so much so that it is a standard in most investment portfolios and even the default, daddy.