• starchylemming@lemmy.world
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      6 hours ago

      does it only apply to women?

      what about ramontic gay couples snacking a third platonically? is that a rhinoceros ?

      also some straight couples look for a man, you gotta be flexible you know

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        6 hours ago

        My wife and I are in the lifestyle.

        It’s incredibly easy to find a male third.

        A bisexual woman who is willing to join a heterosexual couple is much much harder to find. That’s why they call em unicorns.

        • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          Wow, I found it much, much more difficult to find bisexual men wanting threesomes than women. But that may simply be because it was easier as a woman to find other women to join.

          I consider both men and women willing to join couples unicorns.

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          3 hours ago

          So true. Or a truly bisexual 3rd, man or woman. Hard to find. Straight or mostly straight dudes are everywhere.

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        When you’re a dude in your 20s, the husband is in his 60s, and the wife is in her 40s, there’s a good chance he’s more of a observer than a participant.