Upbringing. That’s pretty much always the answer for this kind of thing. People learn what to expect from the world in their formative years. If they are taught by their community to expect pain, they will expect pain, and from there it’s just a question of their coping style, which is usually also taught to them. (Screaming, violence, substance dependency, etc.)
Why so insecure?
Upbringing. That’s pretty much always the answer for this kind of thing. People learn what to expect from the world in their formative years. If they are taught by their community to expect pain, they will expect pain, and from there it’s just a question of their coping style, which is usually also taught to them. (Screaming, violence, substance dependency, etc.)