• Gowron_Howard@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone years after you had feelings for them. However the body count reference gives me the incel ick.

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      5 months ago

      It’s pretty clear to me that anon carefully crafted this story, no matter how much of it is actually real, to cast himself in the best possible light and show this woman as evil. It’s telling that in doing so he didn’t even realize that it reflected poorly on him to shame her for having sex with someone who wasn’t him.

  • MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca
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    5 months ago

    Setting aside the ick of valuing someone my how many (or how few) partners they’ve had…

    Sounds to me like Anon is a “beta”, she was looking for an “alpha” (these would be my impression of her opinion)… When all the “Alphas” rejected her, or used her as a cumdumpster and left, and she started to lose the looks she thought would land her an “Alpha”, she finally considered Anon as a possible partner.

    As horrible as that is, rejecting someone based on body count is pretty shitty. If the tables were turned and Anon had a massive body count, more people would think they’re a stud more than anything.

    The double standard is horrid and unacceptable.

    I don’t even remember my body count. I stopped keeping track after 12 or so? It’s just not important, and as long as you’re having safe, protected intimate times, who gives a shit?

    Edit: Seems I’ve been ratio’d. Noted, thank you for your participation.