• Buddahriffic@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    That loser mindset is the issue, not the practice date. With a mindset like that, the rest is irrelevant because he’ll just sabotage any chances by being too needy and demanding proof of affection or bouncing between hot and cold, either of which eventually drives the other person away.

    Someone who is entirely repulsed by you won’t offer a pity date and especially not a pity bj. They might decide they don’t like you that much anymore based on the date itself, they might even try claiming they never liked you if they feel embarrassed, but I’d argue there were selfish motives hidden behind the “practice date” label.